Remember when Valentine’s Day was about cupcakes with pink frosting and red hots, and shoeboxes covered paper doilies and hearts? Rather than a fraught obligation that isn’t fun for singles or couples?

For those who aren’t feeling Valentine’s Day, I have a few things to say.

First, I did a fun interview with The Boston Globe‘s Rachel Raczka.

I have also expressed many thoughts via blog.

Don’t Fear The Cupid. The Date Report.

Why You Don’t Have to ‘Love Yourself To Find Love. eHarmony.

Alone on Valentine’s Day? Meet Some of My Friends. Huffington Post.

Dare To Date on Valentine’s Day. eHarmony.