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Hi, I’m new here. I read the book over a year ago and I always go back to it when things get hard.

I’m currently dealing with this too. Partnered people don’t understand how being perpetually single changes you and things you never thought you’d do you find yourself doing.

I’ve found that avoiding too much time with the friend, being honest about how you feel, creating boundaries (both verbally and with your actions) and remembering your own separateness has not made it go away but has given me space to not flip out at the friend. I often find that being by myself is a great help.

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