Hi everyone, just want to say how happy I am to see such a wonderful community here, and to see so many people giving such sane and thoughtful advice. I also want to let you know that I’m going to take a crack at some of your questions on my eHarmony blog, but I’m not going to explicitly say that the questions came from this page. The reason is, I think this forum works best when people find it organically, and I don’t really want to announce it to the general online-dating public since obviously not everyone is going to get what it’s about. Or, put more bluntly, I don’t want to announce the site to potential mansplainers or trolls. Mariposa has done a great job of managing the situation when it has arisen in the past, but it’s a headache and makes it less fun for everyone. Let me know if you have any thoughts on this.